Stop saying “I love you
Stop saying “I love you”. Seriously, it’s the most misused phrase on earth. It’s a nice thing to say to someone but tell me, do you mean it? A lot of people say it cause it’s convenient but tell me, do you really mean it? A reporter asked an elderly couple “How did you manage to stay together for 65 years” .The woman’s reply blew me away. She said we were born in a time when if something was broken we would fix it, Not just throw it away Hearing her words made me pause for a second. No more than just a second cause it made me realize that what most people call love today isn’t love at all. It’s, possession and not to be a cynic.
But I feel most people when our generation just don’t know the difference so if you’re confused and stop saying, “I love you”. Don’t even fix your lips to make the sound. You want to know the difference between love and possession? well I’ll break it down. Contrary to popular belief true love is not blind. It has 20/20 vision and a loving relationship is not 50/50 either. It is 100 /100 , A total commitment. It’s not a trade or a balancing act. It is all chips on the table your whole heart in that step. Do not fall into the trappings love says I want you to be happy.
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Possession says I want you to make me happy. Cause, possession is actually the opposite of love it’s other name is addiction. Love has an alias too that goes by understanding and commitment. See while possession says, “Me,” love says “We.” Possession is a cage, love is the sea. Possession wants to control love wants to free possession wants to become love. Wants to be Possession keeps receipts to remember his good deeds love this man keeps score but remembers. We are on the same team.
Possession hardens the heart, love softens it possession picks a flower out of the ground but love Waters it. Possession wants to hide love is vulnerable and exposed. Possession sees the body Love, Sees the soul Love trust the process possession controls the direction possession wants to win the argument love desires to win, connection. Possession is filled with darkness love with sunlight Possession says who’s right love says what’s right love is not sweaty palms or a pounding heart no it’s more of a calm, Explosion possession destroys those who touch it. Love heals all who hold it. Possession is counterfeit. Love is the only truth possession fades away love is forever because it is absolute. But look nothing is perfect even love needs to be fed a daily dose of forgiveness. Understanding not just those empty words said. So are you willing to persevere through tough times? and choose love every single day? are you willing to fix things that are broken? Not just throw them away? If you said yes, I promise your love will last a lifetime and every day will feel brand new just do me one favor, Please respect the word love and say it only to those. You truly do.
Written by Dilan365
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